Mr. Jhandak's Holy Cow |
House-hunt in a small, two-tier
city of India like Jodhpur is an arduous challenge. There is no formal,
organized market where one can go online and get fair deals. On top of it, people are highly suspicious of young bachelors and outsiders. If one tells about
his return from United States then it’s more than enough to worsen his
case. He is thought of as a kind of debauch, drunkard and a meat-eating
foreigner who will defile the ‘holy soul’ of India. It is very difficult for meat-eaters to rent a house. Hence, my father introduced me to Mr. Jhandak (names have
been changed) who helped me yesterday in the house hunt. I have been instructed
to feign complete ignorance in the matters of meat and wine!!!
Mr. Jhandak is a local merchant
who deals in mining explosives. He is quite a huge personality who is made
distinct by his thick-dark complexion, spotless white kurta-pajama and a string
of stones in his fingers which includes a precious Safire, diamond and an
exotic ruby. He strongly believes that his wealth, power and prosperity
emanates from his stones and values. Mr. Jhandak is a very humble, low profile,
simple, family-oriented, religious and a vegetarian man. However, he is a
shrewd businessman. He is also a prominent politician with the local Congress
wing but he is a great supporter of the right-wing Hindu nationalist leader Mr.
Narendra Modi who is the present prime minister of India. Despite his
proclaimed secular credentials he is a great fan of Mr. Modi for his
pro-hindutva views.
In my interaction with him, I
discovered many interesting aspects of his life, views, routine and family
which enable me to understand India even better. He took me to a construction
site where he is building a complex in order to make money from the soaring
property rates in Jodhpur. I met a group of workers at his construction site.
All of them came from either lower castes or Muslim community. They are mostly
migrant workers from Bihar, Bengal and Bangladesh. They get around $8.33 to $15
for 8-10 hours’ work in extremely hot and dangerous conditions. The main
architect, which in India is totally different from the university-educated
architects of the West, is Hamid Khan. He comes everyday with his father Mr.
Salauddin Khan. They are from the caste of silawats who are experts in
stone-work.
“Three to four centuries back we
were from the Sompura(Hindu stone workers) community before conversion to
Islam. We have served the Jodhpur royal family for last three to four
centuries.”, said Salauddin Khan. Salauddin Khan sounds very ancient and regal
in his tone. He asked his son to fetch Jodhpuri onion katchoris (Indian
dumplings) for me, and with that also came a piping-hot over-boiled cup of tea. It tasted like sugar syrup, though it made a great combination with
Katchoris.
I am told that Jodhpur has about
40% muslim population. Hindus and Muslims have developed a strong communal
harmony and joint culture which is a strange matrix of common rituals, beliefs,
business and crime. But Salauddin Khan, being a traditional Muslim is disturbed
by the increasing radicalization among the younger generation of Muslims. He
said that one can see umpteen numbers of teenage Muslims boys with green pagdis
(headgears) going to deobandi madarasaas. He supports modern computer-based
education for Muslims. Some recent developments have started affecting the
age-old trust based on shared culture and traditions. Recently about 12 local
muslim youngsters were arrested by the central intelligence agencies for
conspiring to bomb tourist places in Jodhpur. All of them have been found to
have links with Indian Mujahiddin which is kind of a feeder organization for
Al-Quaida.
Mr. Jhandak informed me that the
relations between the two communities have a history of tension and cordiality
but after the devastating attack of 26/11 in Mumbai, and a series of blasts in
Jaipur and Ahemdabaad a general distrust has emerged. “I stopped selling mining
explosives to Muslim merchants after I was investigated by the police in a
link-up with the Ammonium nitrate found in a couple of blasts”, says Mr.
Jhandak. On top of this increasing friction, Hindu communalism is also on the
rise after the victory of BJP in the recent elections.
After the visit to the construction
site, he took me to his place. I met his obedient son who is getting married in
February, next year. He seemed pretty excited about his marriage. But, Mr.
Jhandak seemed concerned over one issue i.e. his daughter-in-law is highly
educated. He fears that she will spoil the family values and traditions. He
feels that girls should not receive high education as it disturbs the social
peace, harmony and family values. He proudly talks about his daughter’s
marriage into a super-wealthy family. He believes that his daughter got such a
wealthy and nice family because of her family values and not because of the
little education which she was lucky enough to get. He also told me that he
gave $416,666 in a dowry to his daughter and spent around $900,000 in his
daughter’s wedding. But he is not going to take dowry in his son’s wedding. “I
want a decent daughter-in-law. I have already earned enough money”, said Mr.
Jhandak.
He also told me about his
back-breaking routine. He sleeps at 2:30 in the night after jotting down the
religious word “Ram” in a notebook for about three hours. He gets up at six and
leaves his house at 6:30 after a cup of tea. He survives on several cups of tea
and tobacco/lime masala (a harmful and throat-cancer causing mixture, immensely
popular in Jodhpur) until three in the afternoon when he has his lunch and at
11 in the night he has his dinner. He is 44 years old and is almost free of his
family responsibilities.
“I have established good
business, property worth millions of dollars, married a daughter and now
getting a daughter-in-law. What more I want!!! My son is obedient and a shrewd
businessman so I have now worries. I want to spend the rest of my life in
religious and socio-political pursuits now”, told Mr. Jhandak.